You're going to want to disconnect the stock boost solenoid completely. You can leave it in, but just disconnect it. Go out and get some vacuum line and run equal lengths from the wastegates to a T fitting, and then as short as possible from the T to the solenoid. Connect the y-pipe to the solenoid as usual. That will be your best bet.
You can use the stock lines if you want to as well. For example, you can cap off line "W" going into the solenoid, and line "B" going to the H fitting with a vacuum cap. Run a vacuum line from the now open y-pipe fitting to the EBC solenoid, and then connect the stock line coming out of the bottom stock solenoid port to the EBC solenoid. I would suggest doing it the other way I explained though.
