ok, so apperently im cheap and ghetto, but it got the job done.
poly motor mount that cost me just $3.99
ive only done the front so far, i havent got around to the others because just doing the from made soooooooooo much/all the difference. my flex pipe doesnt raddle anymore, my motor doesnt move at all eathier. little vibration, but you have to look for it. i plan on doing the back and sides soon, but like i said its not to important to me since just the 1 made all the difference.
Edit:
for anyone interested, you can pick up a tube of poly from home depo, just cut the rubber out,and fill the motor mount, then bake in the over for about 45min at 275. comes out like a rock.