So i finally got my car all tore apart... and it isnt that pretty... so i'll just let the pictures do justice instead of words..
Heres the oil pan.... with lots of metal...and seems to be what is called...

yup! the connecting rod!

So this is where all the metal in the oil pan came from!!!

So i finally got it all apart and the head off and this is what i see!!!
I popped the piston out with a screw driver and this is what it looks like.
I find it really ironic that something major went wrong with my 3s almost exactly the same day last year my trans blew up.... heres some pictures from that too!
Anyways... the block is fine, there are no cracks, and she should be up and running again soon!